The discovery of the female G-spot caused a sensation at one point, even if its existence is still not assured. At the same time, only a few people know about a men's area, but every man certainly has one and it is much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And of course, absolute confidence, because not all girls will have access to the most intimate.
Where is the G-spot in men?
Unlike women, who have to search for a mysterious area literally at random, men don't need to guess its location. The "G" spot in men, behind which the famous prostate is hidden, is located on the anterior wall of the rectum, approximately 5 cm above the anus. To the touch, it resembles a tuber the size of a walnut or chestnut, and at the moment of excitement it swells.
To find a man's G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also influence the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (there is usually no hair in this area). In some men, the erogenous zone may be slightly shifted to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your partner or girlfriend to caress the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can feel like an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to caress the G-spot?
The sensations associated with prostate stimulation can be very different. Some guys experience incredible pleasure (literally to tears), for others it helps to maintain excitement, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it is definitely worth a try so as not to deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements and the use of force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation, release can be delayed.
- The impact of the process forces more blood into the penis, making its pulsation more powerful and pleasurable.
- Strong rhythmic pressure mimics the process of prostate contraction, thereby increasing the intensity of the final phase of orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to caress the G-spot at the time of obtaining the maximum erection, as soon as the shaft of the penis swells to its full length. If the sensations are unpleasant or imperceptible, you need to wait a little. If at the time of full arousal there is still no reaction, perhaps this area in a particular man is not considered erogenous. In this case, it is best to concentrate on caressing the scrotum and penis, or to return to explore the area later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If there is embarrassment or uncertainty in the partner, the first experiment may fail. But it is possible that further research will bring more pleasure if man truly succeeds in liberating himself. Help in such games will be special devices (finger tips, vibrating balls, small vibrator), presented in a wide variety in adult stores. You can stroke the G-spot in at least two ways:
- Inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated with lubricant and then inserted into the anus 5 cm or more. You must move towards the pubis. You can find the tender spot "g" near the tubercle on the wall of the rectum. And then you need to massage it carefully, observing the man's reaction.
- Out. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways: orally or manually. A man will be delighted to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can be alternated with passionate kisses. When caressing with your hands, a gentle water-based lubricant will help improve the glide and provide more pleasure for your partner. You should massage the area with the pad of your finger, using circular movements and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot throbs. To increase pleasure, it must be influenced by the rhythm of contractions. Adherents of Eastern teachings claim that in this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G zone was called the "million dollar point" and sexologists developed special techniques to delay ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful in cases of sexual dysfunction.
Is stroking the G-spot beneficial for a man?
In fact, stimulating the area can be compared to a light prostate massage. Only the latter is carried out in a medical institution and does not always bring pleasant sensations, associating men with negativity and embarrassment. Caressing the erogenic G-spot in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of your loved one are conducive to pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and give them more intimate connotations.
As for the health benefits, regular caresses of the prostate will be a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on condition that there is no pathology on this side at the moment and the massage itself is carried out gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to influence the prostate area if a man suffers from chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostate hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, fissures of the anus, etc. When in doubt, it is optimal to use light oral stimulation, excluding anal and manual G-spot massage.